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How to Write Wedding Vows That Will Leave Your Partner Speechless (Without the Stress!)

Hey there lovers! 


If you’re reading this, chances are you’re feeling just a little overwhelmed about writing your wedding vows. Am I right? I get it. Writing wedding vows can be one of the most emotional and nerve-wracking parts of planning your big day. After all, how do you possibly sum up your love, promises, and hopes for the future in just a few short minutes? Especially when you’re juggling all the other wedding planning tasks!


Whether it’s writer’s block, nerves, or simply not knowing where to start, you are not alone.


But here’s the good news. Writing unforgettable wedding vows doesn’t have to be stressful or time-consuming. In fact, it can be fun, emotional, and yes, even easy when you have the right guidance.


Feeling the Pressure to Write Perfect Vows? You’re Not Alone.


Let’s face it: the pressure to write the perfect vows can feel immense. Maybe you’re:


  • Struggling to find the right words that truly reflect your relationship.

  • Procrastinating because the idea of getting everything down on paper feels overwhelming.

  • Worried about speaking in front of a crowd and being too emotional (or freezing up!).

  • Unsure of how to add that perfect mix of humour, sincerity, and personal touches.


Trust me, I’ve been there. As a celebrant for over 16 years, I’ve seen it all. From couples who’ve written their vows months in advance to those frantically scribbling them the night before, or worse 30 minutes before their ceremony - yup I’ve been there for that too (my heart nearly couldn’t take it).


What I’ve learned? The key to beautiful vows isn’t about being a professional writer. It’s about speaking from the heart in a way that’s authentic to you.


The Biggest Myth About Writing Wedding Vows


Let’s bust a myth right now: you don’t need to be a wordsmith or a poet or spend hours stressing over your vows to make them special.


I’ve worked with countless couples who thought they’d never be able to write vows that would move their partner to tears or make their guests laugh, only to see them nail it by following a few simple steps.


Here’s the secret: the best vows are heartfelt, not perfect.


And that’s where I come in!


Introducing the Epic Wedding Vow Writing Course: Your Guide to Stress-Free, Unforgettable Vows


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Imagine this: you’ve just exchanged your vows. Your partner is smiling (maybe even tearing up a little), and your guests are feeling every word. You’ve created a moment that will stay with you both forever. How amazing would that feel?


Now, what if I told you that you could have those vows written and ready in just one hour?


That’s exactly what my Epic Wedding Vow Writing Course will help you do. As a celebrant who’s helped hundreds of couples write their vows, I’ve packaged everything I’ve learned into a simple, fun, and effective course designed to guide you through writing vows that are:


  • Personal and unique to your love story.

  • Heartfelt and sincere (with just the right amount of humour if that’s your style!).

  • Memorable enough to have your partner and guests talking about them long after your wedding day.


What You’ll Learn (In Just One Hour!)


The Epic Wedding Vow Writing Course is a one-hour, self-paced online course, broken into easy-to-follow videos and supported by a downloadable workbook. Whether you’re completely stuck or just want to add a little polish, I’ll walk you through everything step by step.


Here’s what we’ll cover:


  1. Breaking Through Writer’s Block: Get past that blank page with my proven techniques to overcome procrastination and anxiety.

  2. Personalising Your Vows: Learn how to weave your love story, inside jokes, and unique quirks into your vows.

  3. Structuring Your Vows: I’ll give you a simple, foolproof framework to help your vows flow naturally, so you don’t get stuck.

  4. Adding the ‘Epic’: Want vows that are extra special? Learn my “secret squirrel vows” and “ninja vows” techniques for adding that wow factor while keeping your final vows a surprise for the big day.


You’ll also get:


  • A downloadable workbook packed with vow templates, word inspiration, and examples and more.

  • Two personalised feedback sessions where I’ll review your vows and provide tips for polishing them to perfection.

  • Lifetime access to the course, so you can revisit it for vow renewals in the future!


Here’s what other couples who took the course have to say:


"We loved that our vows could be around the same amount of time/words whilst keeping them private until the day."


"The questionnaires that we completed were really great fun date night activity."


"I loved that I got to sit down with my partner and go through the questions together."


"It was nice to set aside time just for us to reflect on how far we have come and evolved as a couple."


"Our vows made for a good laugh and added our personalities into our ceremony."


"Our guests were still talking about it the next day."


Ready to Write Vows That Speak from the Heart?


If you’re ready to stop stressing and start writing vows that capture the love you and your partner share, I’m here to help.


Join the Epic Wedding Vow Writing Course today, and in just one hour, you’ll have vows that will leave your partner speechless (and maybe even a little teary-eyed).


Want to see a sneak peak inside the Epic Vow Writing course?




Frequently Asked Questions


  • What if I’m not a good writer?

    You don’t need to be! The course is designed to help you find the right words, even if writing isn’t your strength.

  • Can we write our vows together?

    Absolutely! Although I do recommend keeping your final vows a secret – it makes for a more powerful moment on the big day.

  • What if I can’t attend live?

    No worries – the course is pre-recorded, so you can watch it whenever it’s convenient for you. And yes, you’ll have lifetime access!


From Your Heart to Theirs...

Your wedding vows are the heart of your ceremony – a once-in-a-lifetime moment to speak from the heart. Don’t let the pressure get in the way of creating something truly special.


With the Epic Wedding Vow Writing Course, you’ll have everything you need to write vows that are funny, heartfelt, and unforgettable. So, are you ready to say “I do” to vows that are uniquely yours? Join here.

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